Do you live in DC? Are you looking to switch careers but don’t know what you’d like to switch? That’s the case for a majority of people who need a Career Counselor,(Jim Weinstein, Career Coach) to help with searching for guidance on how to transition. It poses not only the obvious, practical challenge of providing no direction towards an ultimate goal but is also like an emotional millstone around their necks: they’re often somewhat ashamed that they haven’t figured that out, viewing that “failure” as an indictment of their intelligence or even their personality. And of course not knowing where one wants to wind up makes it awfully hard to ask friends, colleagues, or networking acquaintances for help in getting there.

Beware the trap of trying to get too specific with your career goal if you’re uncertain!

One of the most famous aphorisms related to goal achievement is Stephen Covey’s second Habit of Highly Successful People: “Begin with the end in mind.” And innumerable articles and books urge their readers to develop a plan – a five year, ten years, even twenty or thirty-year plan. Makes all the sense in the world, right? How can you get somewhere if you don’t know where you want to get?

Unfortunately, most people either have never felt a strong passion for, or even a relatively moderate attraction to, particular career paths, or haven’t had enough life/work experience to be able to confidently choose a destination. So, swayed by the cultural narrative that says they should know, they often turn to career testing (most commonly Myers-Briggs) for the answer. After all, isn’t that an objective way to gauge one’s strengths and weaknesses, one’s likes and dislikes? Shouldn’t such testing produce a reliable indicator of the right career choice?

No, it doesn’t. Or at least it can’t be relied on to be sufficiently predictive of an individual’s satisfaction and success with a particular career path, for two key reasons. First, Myers-Briggs (and most other common career tests) certainly has value as an employer’s measurement of the likelihood of success in a given occupation (in other words, predicting that a certain personality type, or set of strengths, is well suited for certain jobs)*. But when utilized to predict any specific individual’s path to success it is hampered by the wide variance among individuals that exists in any large group.

An analogy: We might know that grits are enjoyed by 55% of Texans, and are 10 times more popular among them than among Pennsylvanians. So if I were entertaining a group of Texans in Pennsylvania grits would probably be a good choice to serve. But how accurate a prediction can I make for any individual Texan’s enjoyment of grits? There’s almost as big a chance that a specific Texan WON’T like grits (45%) as WILL (55%).

The prediction accuracy is further clouded by the fact that most people tend to fall in the middle of a bell curve that plots any particular strength or characteristic, and that there is the possibility of significant variation in the way career test questions are answered, depending on the mood and circumstances of the testee. For example, I am likely to favor answers that point to extroversion if I had a great time at a party last night, but to introversion, if I felt excluded. Or I might lean towards answers that revealed an empathetic personality if I had just finished an email exchange with a friend who had turned to me for comfort.

Then there is the fact that suggested career choices for any particular personality type or strength clusters are pretty broad. For example, a Myers-Briggs ENFJ is pointed to teaching, counseling, nursing, and perhaps management. The exact opposite Myers-Briggs type (ISTP) is directed to computing, engineering, accounting……and managament!

Of course career testing can be valuable in identifying career paths to explore, but the emphasis needs to be on the exploration, rather than relying on the test to answer the question “what should I do?” There are several excellent published frameworks for this exploration, notably “Designing Your Life” by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, and “Roadmap” by Dave McAllister and Roadmap Nation. Completing the recommended exercises is sure to be valuable, particularly in the context of working with an expert career counselor who can think “outside the box” about what the results suggest.

Let me address another important aspect of career uncertainty, and the way exploration fits in: how to respond to people you’ve sought for guidance or ideas or connections or specific opportunities when they ask you “What do you want to do?” I advise my clients to be very upfront about uncertainty, but not to respond with “I have no idea.” That doesn’t give your connection anything to work with. Instead, respond with something along the lines of “That’s exactly why I’m talking with you. I can tell you that I have some interest in… (technology, marketing, analysis, social justice, making an impact, making money, etc – choose 2 or 3 as a place to start). And I know I’m good with (people, numbers, problem solving, creativity, organization, my hands, etc. – enumerate a few of these). This approach will encourage a more open, creative, brainstorming kind of a conversation – exactly what you need when you’re uncertain. As you engage in these kinds of conversations a much clearer picture will almost certainly emerge.

*In fact Myers-Briggs was originally developed as an employer, rather than an employee, tool

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If you’re exploring a career change, here’s Jim’s 4-stage process

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Develop Your Profile

Jim helps you build a concise narrative capturing everything relevant: who you are, what drives you, and where you want to go.

  • Professional history, key experiences, defining traits
  • Core strengths and preferred work environments
  • Salary range, location, company size, and your real decision criteria
  • Your values
02

Identify Promising Options

Jim identifies paths with clarity including responsibilities, entry points, challenges, and genuine trade-offs.

  • Compensation outlook and growth trajectory
  • Transition pathways and entry requirements
  • Key advantages and honest trade-offs of each path
03

Evaluate and Prioritize

Jim assesses each path against your strengths and constraints. A prioritized shortlist formed based on logic and AI feedback.

  • Alignment with strengths, interests, and real constraints
  • Comparison across fit, feasibility, and long-term upside
  • A focused finalist list for real-world validation
  • Conversations with people doing the actual work being considered
  • Research and AI provide validation of choices
04

Getting the Job

Jim ensures that your networking outreach, resume, LinkedIn profile, elevator speech, and interview performance are superior.

  • Network outreach and targeted introductions
  • Independent research and industry trend analysis
  • Informational conversations with people in those roles
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Jim helps you build a concise narrative capturing everything relevant: who you are, what drives you, and where you want to go.

Client Reviews

Working with Jim was a refreshing and positive experience. As a first-timer to working with a coach, I wasn’t sure what to expect. Jim was spot-on in identifying the primary goals and we achieved them within the four weeks he had predicted. His great demeanor made the process effective and easy. Jim is truly delighted in the progress his clients make. This became clear when seeing the broad smile and satisfaction on his face when he realized we achieved our stated goals and that I had the tools to take the next step in my professional and personal success. He’s a great resource to have.

Michael Veronis

I am so incredibly grateful for Jim’s guidance during a challenging career change. His insight, feedback, and support were essential to my success in landing a dream job. From helping me chart a new course and finding a new passion after burning out in a draining career, to coaching me through final interviews, he was with me every step of the way. I cannot recommend him enough!

Caitlin Lochridge

As an executive search/headhunter I have been lucky enough to partner with Jim on a number of occasions. I have referred several local and remote (Skype, etc.) mid-level to executive-level candidates to him who have reported back to me with rave reviews. Jim has also consulted with me whenever my executive search expertise has been a helpful element to his full-service thoughtful career advice he provides his clients. 100% class act and worth the investment.

Andrew Zalman

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